Denise Barragan
Women’s Life Coach, Motivational Speaker and Feminist.
What is a femininity coach?
I help women create daily rituals to honor themselves. It’s not often we take time to care for ourselves everyday. We are natural nurture’s so it’s no surprise we are off tending to someone else’s needs other than our own. It’s imperative to honor yourself everyday to reconnect with the amazing power that is within you that I call “Femininity Power”. Once connected to this amazing power; fears subside, life becomes enjoyable rather than tolerable, you become confident and secure in life, you are decisive, peaceful and grateful for such a beautiful life. It’s truly amazing to witness a woman reconnect with her power and begin to enjoy her life to the fullest.
My Story
I was in touch with my femininity power at a very young age but through the years my family beliefs, religion, society and my personal low-esteem taught me to be shameful and guilty of my magnificent feminine power. Like many women, I hid my power and locked her away.
It wasn’t until I got married that I learned that being in my feminine power was a major part of my wellness and happiness. Life experiences happen for us for a divine reason and my marriage was a life changing experience for me for it was the start of my path to coach women with their sexuality.
I was under the false notion, just like some of you, that my sexual power would be able to be set free once I married. I was under the belief that marriage would give me permission to let my sexual desires free with no shame or guilt. That belief was wrong because my family upbringing, my religion and society conditioned me to believe this. My husband and I were not sexually compatible leaving me feeling more shame and guilt as well as continuing leaving my power locked away unexpressed. This wonderful experience taught me that it was imperative for me to honor my feminine power if I was to live the fulfilled life I knew I deserved and was my birthright. So, I set off to start my journey of reclaiming my amazing sexual power.
I reclaimed my sexuality by getting back in touch with my Divine Femininity. Being in your feminine sexual power is not just the physical it is so much more than that. Being in touch with your feminine power is about falling back in love with yourself and discovering just how amazing you truly are. All your guilt and shame melts away allowing you to step into your power.
As I am in my feminine power, I am enjoying my life with so much joy and happiness and I look and feel younger! Suddenly, my job didn’t seem so bad, daily responsibilities didn’t weigh me down, dinner practically made itself. My point is, I began to live life joyfully and when you live life joyfully your life becomes easier, fun and pleasurable on all levels: mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
It was at this time I began to sell sex toys. This was not planned but when divine intervention happens it happens. I thought it was a genius idea to gather a group of women together to talk about their sexuality in a safe environment and at the comfort of their own home with their best girlfriends. This was right up my alley for my sexual power was no longer locked up. I met so many women that were not sexually fulfilled whether they were in partnerships or not. This experience enabled me to work with women helping them get in touch with their sexuality.
Divine intervention directed me to enroll in a Business program. It was in this business program, I healed my inner child and voila, the Sex Coach in me was revealed. I began coaching women in a group environment and it was so exciting. I co-created classes for women to reclaim their sexuality. I was reminded again why this service is so incredibly needed because the women were over the top excited. Along with my co-creator, I helped women become more mindful of their truth, fall back in love with their bodies and learn why being sexually fulfilled was not only their birthright, but a part of their wellness. They learned what their bodies desired and how to articulate those desires so they can be fulfilled. It was an incredible year of healing and rejoicing.
I later I enrolled in a nine month meditation program. Divine intervention is never wrong because in this program I healed at the DNA level, and this is when the Femininity Coach was finally set free to help heal in this world. This coach is even more powerful, more intuitive and more wiser. I now know my life purpose and that is to help as many of my Divine Femininity Sisters as I can to reconnect with their sexual femininity power so they can live the richer, fuller and joyful live they were intended to live.